For my single friends out there...

Q: It seemed as if we had a very nice date, why hasn't he called me?

Q: Is he really that busy in his schedule that he couldn't pick up
the phone and give me a call?

Q: We have been in a serious relationship for years, why hasn't he
popped the question?

Q: He said he is just not ready for marriage, after being together
for years, is that a valid excuse?

Answer: He's just not that into you...sorry but it's the truth.

We often think that somehow women give off mixed signals or messages that men could not decipher. The truth is, men are not complicated. They're just trying to be nice and gentle so as not to hurt our precious feelings. Ironically, in the end someone still gets hurt. The point is women deserve better! They are just wasting their time on making excuses for a dead-end relationship.



Edit your vocabulary:
Friend: A person who is your pal. What it generally means in relationships is he's just not that into you.

Busy: Busy means I'm the President of the United States. I'm an astronaut and I'm on another planet. I'm in a really successful band. What it means in relationships is, yeah, I'm just not that into you.

Bad boy: A bad boy is just a bad boy. Stay away. If you're dating somebody that's a bad boy, that's just your fault. If you say "my boyfriend's kind of a bad boy," I feel bad for you. If you say, "I like bad boys" well, then I don't feel bad for you. If you say, "I like things that don't work." Okay, good for you. Generally, guys with low self-esteem aren't worth the trouble. They're just not.

Question: How can I tell if he thinks I'm worth it?
Answer: If the guy thinks you're worth it, he will do whatever is necessary if he thinks you're worth it. If he doesn't, then he doesn't. He's just not that into you.

Standard-Raising SuggestionsI will not go out with a man who:
(a) Keeps me waiting by the phone
(b) Is not sure he wants to date me
(c) Makes me feel sexually undesirable
(d) Drinks or does drugs to an extent that makes me uncomfortable
(e) Fears talking about our future
(f) Is married

I will not, under any circumstances, spend my precious time with a man who has already rejected me or who is not clearly a good, kind, loving person.

--Got this from Oprah

When life seems unfair...

"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent". --Eleanor Roosevelt

If you consider that there may be meaning in the disappointments of life and that the universe is compassionate and wise, you will be able to open yourself to authentic power—the real power within yourself

Learn to control your negativity. Your life does not have to be unfair. You need to put yourself in a place of surrender. Be open to the possibilities that can change your life—they may bring you a greater sense of joy and fulfillment

Consider the "bad" event in your life as a wake-up call to truly appreciate your life as it was. Ask yourself, "What am I supposed to learn from this?" Once you surrender to your anger, you will find room for other things in your life.

Oprah

Html Colors

Debbie You are mediumseagreen. Your dominant hues are cyan and green. Although you definately strive to be logical you care about people and know there's a time and place for thinking emotionally. Your head rules most things but your heart rules others, and getting them to meet in the middle takes a lot of your energy some days. Your saturation level is medium - You're not the most decisive go-getter, but you can get a job done when it's required of you. You probably don't think the world can change for you and don't want to spend too much effort trying to force it. Your outlook on life is brighter than most people's. You like the idea of influencing things for the better and find hope in situations where others might give up. You're not exactly a bouncy sunshine but things in your world generally look up. the spacefem.com html colorquiz

Sandy You are ghostwhite Your dominant hue is blue, making you a good friend who people love and trust. You're good in social situations and want to fit in. Just be careful not to compromise who you are to make them happy. Your saturation level is very low - you have better things to do than jump headfirst into every little project. You make sure your actions are going to really accomplish something before you start because you hate wasting energy making everyone else think you're working. Your outlook on life is very bright. You are sunny and optimistic about life and others find it very encouraging, but remember to tone it down if you sense irritation. the spacefem.com html color quiz

Inspiration

Snagged this from Whiskey River...
Such an inspiration.

If you want to be a writer, write. If you want to be a painter, then paint. There are no magical barriers and there are no ships that are coming for you. You have to follow your dream as if it were something your life depended on. Just begin and don't ever, ever slow down. Make no compromises and do the best work you are capable of. Throw out the old ideas or use them as levers to discover new ones. Reinvent, waste, invert, twist, bend, and puncture your ideas with new ones. Combine, reverse, and put things where they don't belong. Teach your mind how to misbehave. Then, in the chaos, take the exacto knife to it and make it simple."
- Mark Stephen Meadows

Oprah

I seriously have got to go to the Oprah show...
The woman was giving out brand new CARS to each of her 300 plus audience!!!
Can you believe that! Here's the details...
She has been giving out like thousands of dollars worth of things once a year every Christmas in her favorite things segment. It's good to be Oprah..or her studio audience at least.

100 Things About Me

1. I'm a dreamer.
2. I cannot swim.
3. I'd love to learn how to swim.
4. I'm timid, quiet and reserved to some.
5. Friendly to those I feel comfortable with.
6. Don't like confrontations.
7. Sometimes would rather hide from embarassing situations.
8. Would like to learn how to knit.
9. Entered several oratorical contests when young.
10. Can't sleep without my daughter by my side.
11. I love clothes.
12. Nervous when speaking in public.
13. Addicted in redecorating blgger.
14. Found a soulmate, bestfriend in my husband.
15. First met my husband when we were kids.
16. Used to sleeping on the floor.
17. Have trouble sleeping in other houses/places.
18. Annoyed when bugged by someone who couldn't take a hint.
19. Would like to live out of los angeles.
20. Buy a mid-sized house.
21. Love movies full of twists.
22. My life is somewhat like the sitcom "Everybody Loves Raymond".
23. Have overcomed impulsiveness when it comes to buying clothes.
24. Irritated when under pressure.
25. Have to control my temper.
26. Had my daughter when I was 22 years old.
27. Some say I was too young, but it was something that made be mature and stronger as a woman.
28. Have no regrets on having my own family at an early age.
29. Had direction in life when I had my own family.
30. Kind of "went with the flow" during teenage years. Very dependent on family or friends.
31. Seriously woould like to pass the freaking driving test.
32. Dream car: mini cooper
33. I like studying, reading.
34. Not good in sports but trying very hard though.
35. Didn't like my p.e. teacher in highschool. Hated him for embarassing me.
36. Went to a chinese school in the middle of highschool years.
37. Struggled in having friends coz there were like two full blooded filipinos and all of them were half chinese.
38. Didn't like math.
39. Liking math much better because I love my teacher Prof. Lee
40. My hair is slowly thinning.
41. Not surprise if I lose my hair early.
42. Would consider hair implants if i had the money.
43. If given a wild crazy choice on which body part to change, would consider a nose job.
44. Would like to go to the OPrah show.
45. Love my life because I have the people I love close to me.
46. Frustrated writer.
47. Went back to my old weight after pregnancy...admired by many.
48. Can control eating consumption.
49. LIke to travel all over the world.
50. Few good friends. It's quality over quantity.
51. In-laws drives me nuts.
52. Learning to love them. Grateful for everything though.
53. Love to dance.
54. Intimidated to dance in public.
55. Would to take dance lessons.
56. I'm really short. 4'11''
57. Have the most beautiful daughter in the world.
58. Would like to have a boy but not anytime soon.
59. Afraid of going through pregnancy again.
60. Worst morning sickness ever!
61. Had 22 hours of labor.
62. Love Glendale Memorial Hospital! Didn't want to go home after three days of stay in that hospital.
63. Live a simple yet happy life.
64. I'm the eldest of two siblings.
65. Scared of blood. Usually faint with the sight of it.
66. Talking myself out of fainting since I'm becoming a nurse.
67. Worst Mood swings.
68. Love to sweat in a workout or activity.
69. Born in the Philippines.
70. Migrated in the US four years ago.
71. Trying not to be so overprotected with my daughter.
72. Love to dress her up in cute little outfits usually worn by grown ups.
73. Treat my daughter as an individual not a some silly kid.
74. Proud of my daughter's ingenuity.
75. Fond of quizzes, poems, quotations.
76. Sometimes thought of as a snob because of shyness.
77. Tend to loosen up in awhile.
78. Not fond of public display of affection.
79. Curious with other people's lives especially celebrities, aren't we all are.
80. Love my humanities class and Prof.
81. Would like to learn more about history and humanities.
82. Dream school: UCLA
83. Failed twice in driving test have one more to go.
84. Filled with secrets.
85. Good in keeping secrets.
86. Would like to volunteer in church ministries.
87. Have been emotional these past few days.
88. Admire my husband's driving skills.
89. Wish I could have his "driving" brain.
90. Would love to have a complete make over.
91. Only show my temperament to my husband.
92. I believe I'm good in dancing.
93. Running out of things to say. But is still determined to finish this.
94. I'm a couch potato.
95. Don't do well when movements are being monitored.
96. Have to stand up for myself more often.
97. Having trouble saying no to others.
98. Have a sweet tooth. But trying to fight the cravings.
99. Believe that all things has a purpose.
100. Blessed by God.
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Girl Power Mommy

You're a girl power mommy! You love to be girly,
but you're no pushover. Your kids are learning
that gender differences don't have to mean
gender inequality. You've taken back pink, and
you don't care who knows it!


What kind of a freaky mother are you?
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September Eleventh

September Eleventh

The day we will never forget

A tragic date that most of us regret.

I feel nothing more than pity and anger for those who have brought

Danger to so many lives.

Look at all that's left behind:

Husbands and wives,

Homes with children left with nothing but tears falling from their eyes.

Just remember;

God will save us from our fears,

So go on and wipe those tears.

Everyday Survival Kit

Everyday Survival Kit Items Needed: 1. Toothpick - to remind you to pick out the good qualities in others. 2. Rubber band - to remind you to be flexible, things might not always go the way you want, but it will work out. 3. Bandage - to remind you to heal hurt feelings, yours or someone else's 4. Pencil - to remind you to list your blessings everyday. 5. Eraser - to remind you that everyone makes mistakes, and it's okay. 6. Chewing Gum - to remind you to stick with it and you can accomplish anything with God. 7. Mint - to remind you that you a worth a mint to your Heavenly Father. About Me Name: debbie View my complete profile Links Google News Edit-Me Edit-Me Previous Posts Another good movie Total Manjoyment Olympics Mania Tired of being yourself? Reality tv ramblings Follow the Pattern I'm back...sort off Family First Stop and smell the roses Goodbye Mate... Archives August 2004 September 2004 October 2004 November 2004 December 2004 January 2005 February 2005 March 2005 April 2005 May 2005 June 2005 July 2005 August 2005 September 2005 October 2005 November 2005 January 2006 February 2006 March 2006 April 2006 May 2006 June 2006 July 2006 August 2006 September 2006 October 2006 July 2008 August 2008 Current Posts